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Monday, June 24, 2013

Is God pleased if I am doused with water every June 24 in San Juan?

I have heard so many stories of people who were doused with water during one of the celebrations of the Feast of St. John the Baptist in San Juan City in Manila every June 24. The stories were hair-raising. One time, I heard of someone who pleaded hardly to the locals who are about to douse her with water, asking them to let her pass. She was wearing white well-pressed uniform on her way to duty in a hospital. Her pleading did not save her. Today, while doing a little research about the feast, an article said that there was even a time when locals doused passers-by with water from open ditches. Now, I know how ditch waters in Manila smell like. This one made my face fall.





The more stories that I hear of people being ruthlessly “bathed” with water (let alone, ditch water) every June 24, the more that I am convinced that a lot of my people are still unaware of the real meaning of “worshiping God in Spirit and in truth”. I also began to wonder that if St. John the Baptist is still walking on earth today, what will he say about this feast that is supposedly held in honor of his name?



Heading home today, I rode a bus that passes by San Juan. For the first time, it took an alternate route which puzzled me. But when I saw children in the streets carrying pales of water, plastic bags with the same element and water guns, I already knew the answer. Today is June 24.



For the first time in my life, I began to think of the people who are affected by this feast. I was once a Catholic too but I used to not to care about these things. I used to mind my “own” business. But it was very different now that I am a Christian. God gave me the grace to think differently.



When I was still a Catholic and hear these “sad” stories every June 24 in San Juan, I knew there was something terribly wrong. Pleading not to be doused with water for valid reasons such as school or work is not being “killjoy” to the feast that is supposedly “holy” and “sacred”, in the first place. Also, Jesus spoke about mercy. Whatever happened to “holiness” and “mercy” every June 24 in San Juan?



Yes, I knew there was something wrong but I dared not speak against it when I was still a Catholic. Why? First, who am I to speak about the church’s traditions? It’s a taboo. Second, I am too busy to care. Third, I am just really too busy to care.



Boom! It hit me.



I used to say that I’m a Catholic and a follower of Jesus back then but I do reason like this? Shame on me.

Didn’t Jesus, himself, talk about the hypocrisy of the traditions of the Pharisees during his time? Did he also not preach about the importance of loving others as we love ourselves, the second most important commandment? What happened to these things that he fought for 2,000 years ago?



Shame on me.



I heaved a deep sigh. I spread the curtain of the bus open, as if protecting myself from the water-dousing people outside even though I am sitting inside a fully-covered air-con bus. I turned now my attention to the film being shown overhead. Mel Gibson’s Apocalypto. We are already in the scene where the lead character is about to be beheaded when the sun went dark and all of the captives, including him, were released. I wonder, how many heads were decapitated all over the world since the beginning of time because of traditions? How many innocent lives were killed as an offering to God? Was God truly honored in these rituals and traditions?



A year of becoming a Christian had me thinking about my people who are affected by this feast. The San Juan and non-San Juan locals who pleaded not be doused with water. The San Juan locals who seemed to be just enjoying the whole process of dousing water to anyone. The empty jeepneys of the jeepney drivers who rely on their daily income to support themselves and their families. The commuters who did not ride jeepneys that day out of fear of being doused with water. The children holding water guns and shooting passers-by in honor of a saint, which made me question how will this kind of activity form their young minds about the whole concept of honoring God. I even thought of the people in other parts of the world, thirsty for water, and the people who are fighting beside them, asking everyone to conserve it. I also thought of John. What will he say to the people who venerates him?



I thought of God. Is He truly pleased if I am doused with water every June 24 in San Juan?



Because if He truly is, then throw me to the oceans.



Bible Verses



Worshiping in Spirit and in truth. “Woman,” Jesus replied, “believe me, a time is coming when you will worship the Father neither on this mountain nor in Jerusalem. You Samaritans worship what you do not know; we worship what we do know, for salvation is from the Jews. Yet a time is coming and has now come when the true worshipers will worship the Father in the Spirit and in truth, for they are the kind of worshipers the Father seeks. God is spirit, and his worshipers must worship in the Spirit and in truth.” (John 4: 21-24)



Good Order in Worship. “For God is not a God of disorder but of peace—as in all the congregations of the Lord’s people.” (1 Corinthians 14:33)



Worshiping Saints.

o As Peter entered the house, Cornelius met him and fell at his feet in reverence. But Peter made him get up. “Stand up,” he said, “I am only a man myself.” (Acts 10:25-26)



o When the crowd saw what Paul had done, they shouted in the Lycaonian language, “The gods have come down to us in human form!” Barnabas they called Zeus, and Paul they called Hermes because he was the chief speaker. The priest of Zeus, whose temple was just outside the city, brought bulls and wreaths to the city gates because he and the crowd wanted to offer sacrifices to them.



But when the apostles Barnabas and Paul heard of this, they tore their clothes and rushed out into the crowd, shouting: “Friends, why are you doing this? We too are only human, like you. We are bringing you good news, telling you to turn from these worthless things to the living God, who made the heavens and the earth and the sea and everything in them. In the past, he let all nations go their own way. Yet he has not left himself without testimony: He has shown kindness by giving you rain from heaven and crops in their seasons; he provides you with plenty of food and fills your hearts with joy.” Even with these words, they had difficulty keeping the crowd from sacrificing to them. (Acts 14:11-18)



John’s Testimony About Jesus. (John testified concerning him. He cried out, saying, “This is the one I spoke about when I said, ‘He who comes after me has surpassed me because he was before me.’ ”) Out of his fullness we have all received grace in place of grace already given. For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. No one has ever seen God, but the one and only Son, who is himself God and is in closest relationship with the Father, has made him known. (John 1:15-18)



Thinking Differently. Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is--his good, pleasing and perfect will. (Romans 12:2)



Loving Others. Love your neighbor as yourself. (Matthew 22:39)



Warning Against Hypocrisy. Then Jesus said to the crowds and to his disciples: “The teachers of the law and the Pharisees sit in Moses’ seat. So you must be careful to do everything they tell you. But do not do what they do, for they do not practice what they preach. They tie up heavy, cumbersome loads and put them on other people’s shoulders, but they themselves are not willing to lift a finger to move them.



“Everything they do is done for people to see: They make their phylacteries wide and the tassels on their garments long; they love the place of honor at banquets and the most important seats in the synagogues; they love to be greeted with respect in the marketplaces and to be called ‘Rabbi’ by others. (Matthew 23:1-7)



Keeping the Traditions of our Parents. I said to their children in the wilderness, “Do not follow the statutes of your parents or keep their laws or defile yourselves with their idols. I am the Lord your God; follow my decrees and be careful to keep my laws. Keep my Sabbaths holy, that they may be a sign between us. Then you will know that I am the Lord your God.” (Ezekiel 20:18-20)



Causing the Children to Stumble. “If anyone causes one of these little ones—those who believe in me—to stumble, it would be better for them to have a large millstone hung around their neck and to be drowned in the depths of the sea." (Matthew 18:6)

Saturday, April 27, 2013

The Daily Favor Café: Where to Eat in Manila

I have always been on a lookout for a café that will help me escape the city.




Need some quiet time? This man does it right.



Surely, cafes with big names in Manila are cool. They have really nice baristas who smile a lot and are genuinely interested in people. They have nice-looking interiors dominated with earth-tone colours that will remind you of the countryside. And they also have very comfortable couches that if you’re a sleepyhead, you must stay vigilant or you’ll fall asleep!



In fact, I love the big cafes in the city. I have no qualms. Nothing. Except for one.



They are usually crowded.



I go to cafes for two reasons. It’s either I want to catch up with my reading or I want to do some work that I can’t do at home. Doing these things, for me, require incredible amounts of concentration. I just can’t do them in crowded places. That’s why I have always been on a lookout for locations within the city that will help me, well, escape the city.






If you see this signage, it means you're there!

When my friend, Jam, told me about this hard-to-find café somewhere in Pasig, I am more than excited. Finally, an answered prayer. I know businesses will usually build their establishments where the crowds are but this one is a salmon, the fish that swims against the current. I can’t wait to see the Daily Favor Café.



So we decided to go with Jenavee, our songwriter friend who was finishing up a song that time. I knew that it was the perfect moment for us to meet each other. She will find inspiration there and me and Jam will have the chance to hear her new song before it gets aired in some Christian radio station (prophetic on this one).



The Daily Favor Café is so much different from all the cafes that I went into. I have been into really good ones, here and in Shanghai. But the Daily Favor is not only hard-to-find, I believe that it also is a piece of heaven.






Daily Favor's Hainanese Chicken Rice



Wherever you look inside the café, you will see inspiration. There are biblical quotes on the left and some inspirational books on the right. The whole café is embellished with grace!



My friend, Jam, told me that the café is owned by a Filipino businessman and a Singaporean-Chinese. She had the chance to take a photo with them inside the café during her last visit. It was a real treat for her to meet the owners. Though I wasn’t able to meet them during that day, I was able to chat with them online to know more about the café that they brought to life.



Bert and Joshua, the owners, met in a local church in Singapore. They became friends and soon enough found themselves venturing together in a business in the Philippines. They imagined a café where they will be able to nourish both the body and the soul. The body, through their sumptuous Filipino and Singaporean dishes and desserts served daily. And the soul, by sharing the Word in their own way.



This grace-filled imagining birthed the Daily Favor Café.






Puddings galore!

That day, I got myself the bestseller, the Hainanese Chicken Rice with Taro Pudding as dessert and Wintermelon Milk Tea for my drink. I think Jam and Jenavee went for the Nasi Lemak, the other bestseller.

Aside from the food, the other things that I enjoyed during my stay inside the Daily Favor are the books (being a bookworm, myself), the couches, the free WiFi, the warm servers and the quietness of the whole place. It’s the café that I want! I figured that it’s not only good for my quiet time. I can also see myself bringing my friends from Victory Ortigas there. I think it’s just a ride away from our church and it’s perfect for One2One sessions and small group meetings.



I have never stayed long in a single establishment in my life, except for this one. We arrived at around 2:00PM and left at around 7:00PM. In the evening, one of our friends, Monty, joined us and then we decided to have dinner in another place.






(L-R) Me, Jenavee, Jam and Monty

Sleek Tip: Visit the café in the morning or in the afternoon to sip some coffee or milk tea. Bring your book or laptop with you and just unwind, unwind, unwind. If you love books, check out some of their books and get out of the café as a changed person. It’s perfect for quiet times. If you have a group friends, bring them there too and have some tasty puddings. A hundred bucks is more than enough budget per person.



Daily Favor Cafe is also open to private functions and to catering and delivery requirements.



Address: 20-A M.H. Del Pilar St., San Nicolas, Pasig City, Philippines

Tel: (02) 934-3683

Email: beblessed@dailyfavor.co

Facebook: www.facebook.com/dailyFAVORcafe

Monday, April 8, 2013

Suicide Prevention: How to Save a Life





"I'll never forget how, many years ago, after another approach had failed

to give relief, Matthew said `Dad, I know I'm going to heaven. Why can't

I just die and end this pain?"' Warren recalled.

[Source: www.foxnews.com | Photo Credits: www.people.com]

I thought suicide was just too impossible.



It was painful. It was hopeless. It was a sin.



Suicide was impossible. That’s how I thought. But, that was before.



Yesterday, while I was serenely seated down doing my work at the office, one of my officemates briefly announced on my right ear that Rick Warren’s son is dead.



Suicide.



The Purpose Driven Life book. My Victory Group brother Ray. The girl from UP. The suicide hotline I saw in a poster in an LRT station. Pastor Cleve in our Foundation for Victory class. The judgement of the people. The mercy of God. These are the thoughts that ran swiftly on my head when my officemate said, “Suicide.”



I panicked. I wasn’t able to grasp it immediately. How can a son of a pastor kill himself?



And then, the grace of God fell on me. It held the stone of judgement I was about cast upon Pastor Rick Warren and to his family. (The stone says, "Did they not teach his son about God?") In a sudden blink of an eye, it occurred to me once again what Pastor Cleve taught us.



Depression is a disease.



It was as if Jesus took the stone from my hand, crushed it into pieces and wiped my hands clean again. I cannot judge Pastor Rick Warren, nor his family.



More than thinking about Pastor Rick Warren, his family and his son, I became more worried for the people like me who are most likely to judge them without knowing how and why suicides happen. I also thought about the young girl from the University of the Philippines who also took away her life recently, for her inability to pay her school fees. And then today, just this day, two young boys from Batangas were found dead in their rooms too. One of them failed at school and won’t graduate this March. They also committed suicide.



I said to myself, “But these are young men and women who have so much ahead of them. How can life be THAT futile when you are barely on your 20’s? Is this not the age of new beginnings, of new dreams, of new hope?”



“Suicide is just too impossible when you are THIS young!” I bargained with the truth.



But no, truth says, “Suicide is real. It is very real. In fact, it is happening now. It's just, we don’t know all the facts.”



Like a capstone being set in place and completing the whole structure, I now know why a couple of weeks ago in an LRT station, a poster showed itself to me and said, “The Philippines' first ever depression and suicide prevention hotline.”



I never realized how gracious that poster was for simply being there, prostrating itself on the station’s wall and shouting out “Hope is here!” all day long and praying to God for it to be used by Him to save someone’s life.



The Philippines’ first ever depression and suicide prevention hotline was created by a non-profit organization which dreams to give hope to as many people as it can, in times of great need.



The Natasha Goulbourn Foundation offers a 24/7 Hopeline to those who are in need. Their website is at www.ngf-hope.org.




(02) 804-HOPE (4673)


0917 558 HOPE (4673)


0917 852 HOPE (4673)


2919 (toll-free number for all GLOBE and TM subscribers)



Through the website, I have learned more about depression.



Depression is not just a feeling. It is an illness. And like any other illness, it needs to be treated.



POSTCRIPT: During one of my Foundation for Victory classes in Victory Ortigas, one of my classmates asked what will happen to the soul of the girl from UP who killed herself. Will she go to heaven or somewhere else?



I remembered how Pastor Cleve did not answer the question directly and only left us with the thought of how unfathomable God’s mercy is.



“Chemical imbalances occur in the brains of the people who are contemplating suicide. They don’t have the full control of themselves.”



When he said this, I heaved a deep sigh of relief knowing that God is God and that He spared me from the great burden of being a judge to other people.



I don’t know what will happen on Earth if He left the “judging” to us. I bet no one will be spared from the sword. And the worst part is, the weak and the misunderstood may be the first ones to go. Just because we don’t know all of the facts.



Just because we don’t know all of the facts.



I am glad that I don’t need to blame Pastor Rick Warren, nor his family, nor his son for what happened. I am glad that it’s not my business anymore to know whether or not the girl from UP went to heaven or not. I’m glad that God did not appoint me as a judge to the two young boys who took away their own lives when I don’t even know who they are, what kind of life they lived and what’s going on in their minds when they decided to quit.



But I am glad that I know of a Man who walked on Earth two thousand years ago, who has all the right to judge all of us, but did not do so. Instead, He took the judgment for Himself and left us with the commandments to just love one another, and to love God.



INVITATION: I belong to a group of men and women who are more than willing to listen to whatever you want to say. If you need someone to talk to or if you know someone who needs help, please don’t hesitate to call us via 0917-838-7545, or e-mail us via hello@sleekinthecity.com.



VIDEO: “How to Save a Life” by The Fray is a song about wanting to save someone’s life even when you don’t know how. If you have wanted to save someone once in your life, this song is for you.



Let him know that you know best

Cause after all you do know best

Try to slip past his defense

Without granting innocence

Lay down a list of what is wrong

The things you've told him all along

And pray to God he hears you

And pray to God he hears you



#savealife











Sunday, November 18, 2012

The Declaration





Japz Cadelina's personal declaration

is "forgiven".

November 17, 2012. Taguig City. Mercato Centrale had declared its new location at 30th Street in 9th Avenue in Bonifacio Global City. Oxfam and Dakila also declared that day its advocacy for eating Brown Rice and for supporting the local farmers who grow it. Many bazaar concessionaires and customers also declared their support for these 2 coinciding events and among them is the Japz Cadelina. But his is a declaration of another kind.



Japz Cadelina is the owner of the Declaration Shirts. He created its concept for his thesis during his college days in the College of Saint Benilde. He took Multimedia Arts. After graduation, he joined a real estate company as a Graphic Artist. On his 6th month, when he’s about to be regularized, he declared his resignation.



He was already doing bazaars back then and was doing pretty well in it. Now he’s focusing full time in his business and also taking freelance jobs on the side.



Declaration Shirts is unique in its kind. One thing that attracted me to it is its simplicity. All shirts are in black and white only. The fonts used for the statements are uniform in style. The words imprinted in front of the shirts describe the different emotions a Christian feels on his or her faith. There’s “inspired”, “happy”, “changed” and “blessed”. I got “forgiven”. There was a certain kind of feeling that went with that word when I saw it. Japz said that it was also his personal declaration. He was wearing it that day.






Shirts may be bought along with this sleek box  for only

PhP10.00 each. It's a perfect gift for  Christmas!

Being a son of a pastor at their local Christian church, Japz may have taken his inspiration from his dad. He openly shared to me that when his dad died a couple of years ago, his uncle took over and now he’s also a member of their music ministry as a drummer.



It’s amazing how Japz was able to do these things. At an early age, he already has an up and coming business which even celebrities like Enchong Dee, John Prats and Jericho Rosales support. Then again, I really don’t wonder why whenever I think of this verse from the Bible.




"I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." -Philippians 4:13



INVITATION: Let us support Japz’s Declaration Shirt! It’s a perfect gift for yourself and for your loved ones this coming Christmas. For more information, please check out Declaration’s Facebook Page at www.facebook.com/declarationshirts. Or you may contact them directly at 0917-5279-768 or declarationshirts@yahoo.com.